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If you’re having trouble in the dating world, there are life tweaks you can make.

1. YOU DON’T BELIEVE HIM WHEN HE TELLS YOU THE TRUTH
If you’re always accusing him of lying, then you’re going to ruin your relationship.
He won’t stick around if you don’t trust him.
When there is no trust, there is no love.

2. YOU’RE ADHERING TO ULTIMATUMS

If he tells you that you have to lose weight or change the way you dress to keep him around, then he may not be right for you. You shouldn’t even bother trying to make him happy.
There are better men out there who won’t try to change you.

3. YOU DON’T BELIEVE IN LOVE

If you don’t believe in love, it’ll be hard for you to find happiness in a relationship, because you’ll be waiting for something to go wrong.
You need to think positively!

4. YOU DO NOTHING DIFFERENTLY
You can’t do the same thing over and over again and expect different results.
That’s why you need to change the way you deal with boys.
Otherwise, you’ll be “forever alone” forever.

5. YOU TAKE BAD ADVICE FROM FRIENDS AND FAMILY
Your friends and family don’t always know best. Most importantly, they are not in your shoes.
Sometimes, you should listen to your heart instead of listening to the toxic advice that your friends throw at you.
You will regret if things go wrong after following others; you will grow when things go wrong by your decision.

6. YOU COMMIT TOO SOON
Going on one date doesn’t mean you need to start calling him your boyfriend.
Take things slow.
Wait a few months until you let someone fully into your heart.

7. YOU’RE LOWERING YOUR STANDARDS TO COMPETE
Keep your standards, ladies. Do not rush into something because your friends are married.
It’s ok to be different. Your life is unique; you deserve the best, even if it takes years to find it.
So don’t settle to look right. You need to feel right.
Do you have any of these modern behaviors?

How successful are you with online dating?

In conventional dating, people meet and get to know each other naturally and gradually. People never have pre-set idea what they look for. When it works out, they realize both are “perfect” for each other. If it doesn’t work out, it usually is after they dated for a while and substantially know each other. They have found solid information which proves two people are not compatible.

While online, people start with looking at profiles and then chatting. They imagine they come to a super market to pick up someone they like. They usually focus on criterion such as physical appearance, professional backgrounds etc. The worst is looking at each other’s photos, to mention nothing about if the photos are genuine or not. All the process is to build up expectations according to their shopping list. All hope “ one stop to love ‘’. In fact, people hope to grab someone who fits into their romantic dreams. Once it comes to initial meeting, the real person doesn’t match their expectations, they become disappointed and move on.

This process is suitable only if you look for instant romance. Many people have experience that plenty online daters are looking for flings. Some unknowingly fall into that pattern because they unintentionally follow that mind set.

So, if you look for a long term stable partner, do not let your eyes dazzled by the fact: there are always someone else there. You may run the risk of becoming a monkey who picks up corns.

Multiple choices overwhelm people, making them miss their target.

Do not fail to know: a good relationship is not a “readymade product” as soon as you meet someone you like or feel attracted to; a relationship is to be built with effort.

There are plenty suitable candidates for you. You do not need to meet 100. The key is inside you.

You can avoid fruitless multiple dating if you know the nature of dating for a long term relationship.

If you want hear other people’s successful and unsuccessful stories, you may be able to short cut your journey!

Get wise. Come to see me and discuss your online dating performance or meet someone from our members who have been screened and interviewed.

Ph Rose: 0433 312514

Are you looking for a partner for life? Do you want a marriage that will last?

The first step to ensure this is at the beginning of your dating

Some common situations that lead people to choosing a wrong partner:

Get involved quickly when ” love at first sight ” happens.

Fear of not being able to find someone else even if red signals are on.

Clock is ticking because of age.

Fear of loneliness; ” someone wrong is better than nobody ”

Someone who ticks my check boxes for a partner, even though I do not love him / her. ( marriage for convenience )

He treats me so well, really loves me. I don’t feel for him, but maybe I will in the future. ( When young and inexperienced, not knowing how hard it will be to live a daily life with a person you do not love. It happens more often with women. I have come across many divorced women who went through this situation in the beginning of their relationship and got married. However things did not change during years of marriage. Finally they divorced. )

Many people choose their partner based on initial physical attraction or superficial personality attractions. They just can’t go beyond the attraction or their romantic fantasy about someone to work out whether there are any real foundations for their relationship. Very often they misunderstand ” crush ” as ” connections “.

They rush into a relationship or even a marriage far too quickly because ” connections” are too strong to resist. I have heard this comment often from people who came to see me looking for a partner: “I found someone last night; “I found someone last week”. By the time they make this comment, they are no longer single! Their status changed overnight or in a week! Some would come back a few weeks later saying it was a disaster. Some would eventually get married and break up in 6 months or one year’s time; some would stay in a long term and miserable marriage “for the sake of the children”, which is not uncommon in many existing marriages. I have come across many divorced people, who tell me that their marriage wasn’t that good in the beginning, but it dragged on for years and the parties have grown ever more apart.

Don’t give time for both partners to develop. In other cases, when the initial attractions were not mutually expressed at the beginning of dating, people become impatient. I heard report like this: “We are just friends, there is no intimacy. I don’t know what is going to happen; I do not want to waste a few months of my time to go nowhere! ”

Rejecting when initial connections are not there. Some people will come back to me after first meeting with someone, saying ‘”We can only be friends, no more”; some told me referring to a new person they meet: “I will know it in five seconds if this person is for me”.

Judging your dates at first sight, whether accepting or rejecting, is the first mistake we make when it comes to meeting a new person. It is a most common mistake. Why is this? The answer is simple – you are craving for that romantic attraction and love at first sight. In doing this you forget that friends are forever but lovers come and go. If you want a lover who can stay with you for ever, check out whether you can be friends as well. How? Give it time. Remember that what comes quickly, goes quickly.

Recommended book –
How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Relationships
” Boundaries in Dating”
by
Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend

Romance is great. Sexuality is great. Attraction is great. But here is the key: If all of those are not built upon lasting friendship ad respect for the person’s character, something is wrong.

A real and lasting relationship must be built upon lasting friendship first…… The best boundary that you can have in your dating life is to begin every relationship with an eye toward friendship. Do not rush into any kind of romance……

If you do not allow yourself to rush into falling for someone that you have not become friends with first, you will be more sure when you let yourself go to the next step….see if that person is a person that you would like spending time with if there were no romance at all. That is one true measure of a friend, a person with whom you like to spend time, having no regard to how you are spending it. “Hanging out” is fulfilling in and of itself. And that, long-term, requires character, and in the deepest of friendships, shared values as well. “

If you find that you are not really friends with someone you have a “crush” on, let that be a warning signal that something is wrong.

Friendship should always be an underlying foundation of any romantic relationship. Romance is fleeting, and comes and goes. Friendship lasts. Both are important in a lasting relationship.

At Your Perfect Partner we promote family values. We believe a happy stable family plays the most important role in most people’s life.

You can have a successful career or highly professional job; You are respected at work place; To enjoy life to the full you travel to exciting places with your interesting partner. Next year, you bring a new beautiful face going with you. Life is wonderful and stimulating. However your satisfaction may not bring you the joy of coming back home with everyone sitting around in front of fireplace.

You can be an ordinary person with an unexciting daily job just to meet the financial needs. However you have a caring loyal partner who welcomes you home every day; you are followed around by lovely children; you frequent warm get-togethers with supportive relatives and extended families.
Above are pictures of two different life styles based on different values. If you would like to create a picture in your life that is similar to the second one, you are surely going to meet your compatible partner at our service.

Your Perfect Partner in its 30 years practice has made connections to many couples who end up in the second picture.

As a strong multicultural environment, Sydney offers great opportunities for everyone to choose a partner who clicks with them in terms of physical attraction and lifestyle. On the other hand, it is also challenging when it comes to Who you should choose so that the relationship will be a happy one in a long term. What decides your future success?

At Your Perfect Partner, we believe everyone’s upbringing plays an important role in their life and future relationships. We would like to assist you in choosing that special person who will walk through life’s journey with you, “ for better or for worse ”.

Contact us for a quick telephone chat and see if we have someone potential for you. If suited, you can be invited for a first free introduction.

Ring Rose now:
0433 312514; 92614266 or email: info@yourperfectpartner.com.au with your contact number. She will contact you as early as practical.